Porn…Essential To Masturbatory Lift-Off?

I like to pride myself on not being your typical woman. I don’t get all emotional when it comes to sex, I’m not shy talking about sex—oral, anal or other—and I don’t mind a good session of self lovin’.

Of course there are tons of women out there who masturbate, probably a whole hell of a lot more than the few brave ones who actually own up to doing the nasty on their own. In fact I went to college with a few (allegedly) sexually free women who swore their fingers never flicked a bean, leaving me as the lone sex-obsessed girl who masturbated in between sexual conquests.

But hey I graduated top of my class and totally relaxed…can any of them say that?!?!

Moving on…

I find that even now plenty of women have this misguided perception that masturbation is something only men are allowed to do. The women who do own up to tending to their own sexual needs are embarrassed, ashamed or too humiliated to talk about it. In fact, I recently met a woman who lived alone but was so ashamed of her need to please herself that she only masturbated in the shower with the bathroom door locked and she used the showerhead instead of a battery powered toy.

Of course I totally approve of the showerhead; the right showerhead can really improve the mundane task of showering. But a professional woman living alone, too afraid to let it all hang out…why?

I’ll tell you in one word: porn. Or rather lack of porn. So many women avoid the art of masturbation because they lack the proper stimuli to get them to the mountain top. Sure sometimes an image of Pitt, Clooney or whomever gets your motor running enough to get you to the summit but sometimes a girl needs…a little more.

Me, I enjoy porn…immensely. Maybe it’s because I spent several years working (behind the camera) in the porn industry that I don’t place the same stigma on it as most of society. If anything working I porn has made it more difficult to find good porn to jerk off to, because it’s hard to masturbate to someone you’ve had over for dinner.

That being said, I find porn almost essential for a good session of self-love. I enjoy girl on girl, I mean really who doesn’t? But as we’ve already established I have something of an oral fetish and man-on-woman (also known as boy-girl) porn doesn’t provide enough oral stimulation to the woman so I stick to good ol’ lesbian porn. Don’t give me the girl on girl porn made for men, I want the butch lesbian diving deep between the creamy thighs of dainty little thing how it’s supposed to be. The better the angle, well, the more efficiently my own selfish goals are reached.

While I enjoy watching porn for entertainment purposes, for my own pleasure I have very specific interests. I like orally-focused porn no matter who the recipient is, although a good cunnilingual session is preferred I can also seriously enjoy an enthusiastically given blow job.

I think learning to love masturbation and basking in that fact is directly related to enjoying porn…especially if you are a digital stimulator. With my trusty rabbit, that is actually more of a butterfly I don’t really need anything if I’m being pervertedly honest. But with a few minutes of porn, I can get there in under 2 minutes, a fact of which I am immensely proud.

Some of my girlfriends think that porn is degrading, demeaning blah blah, fucking blah. But let’s get something straight; none of these girls are forced in front of a camera other than by financial circumstances or a desire to emulate Jenna Jameson. Trust me: I’ve interviewed them, I’ve helped them fill out the paperwork stating as much and I’ve hung out with them outside of the studio and they don’t smoke crack or snort Xanax to forget about their scenes. You know what they do; enjoy having sex for more money than I do with my piddly little Master’s Degree!

It looks demeaning and degrading because that is how porn is supposed to look. If more women took an interest in the erotic arts, there would be really good porn out there for them to fuck themselves to. That’s just a fact.

But that doesn’t mean that you can’t peruse through the millions upon millions of gigabytes of porn available for FREE on the web and find something to help you get off.

In fact, I would argue that the more comfortable you get with masturbating in general, and masturbating to porn specifically, the better your future relationships will be. You’ll expect a man or woman who can make you come because you now know how to make yourself come. You won’t stay with someone just for sex, because you are an expert at efficiently getting yourself off, and once you know what it takes to make you come you won’t be as understanding with those lazy lovers who look at sex like a race.

Don’t just say “I don’t like porn” because just about EVERYONE who has actually watched a porno or 2, likes porn. Go to PornHub or PornTube or wherever else your little heart desires and peruse the many different categories to see what you like. It’s the internet and no one is judging you, so if you like watching BBWs get plowed by midget men, break out your vanilla-scented candles and rechargeable batteries and let loose…you know you want to!

Just like my evil step-monster used to tell me about Brussels sprouts (which I now love by the way), “you never know what you don’t like until you try it.” She wasn’t right about much and I’m pretty sure she didn’t mean sexually, but hey even a broken clock is right twice a day…right?

2 thoughts on “Porn…Essential To Masturbatory Lift-Off?

  1. I use porn whenever I need a boost to my self pleasuring sessions. I typically just go on RedTube; the short clips keep my interest just long enough before I crave something better. I have lost hours of my life on that website…I know…I should be ashamed…

    But, I’m not.

    Awesome post 🙂

    Mistress M
    giveheadandheart.com

    • Hahaha, no shame at all! I usually find the 1 to 2 min. clip I need and let her rip. Maybe I should be ashamed too but usually I’m too relaxed to think of things like shame…

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